FOMO – another 4 letter F word

no one ever said on their deathbed “I wish I spent more time at work”

The world today – the online community – believes it has “something” to say that is important. We are bombarded daily with headlines, newsletters, emails and ads promoting the things you should or need in your life. You should or need to watch/read/listen/subscribe/buy/eat etc these things to enrich your life without FOMO.

FOMO from https://www.thetambellinigroup.com/the-student-information-system-dilemma-when-fud-meets-fatigue-the-whole-industry-suffers/

Wikipedia defines (FOMO) Fear of missing out as the “feeling of apprehension that one is either not in the know or missing out on information, events, experiences, or life decisions that could make one’s life better.” Some say FOBO – the Fear of Better Options.

But who says that information, event, experience or life decision is important? Surely it is based on someone else’s experience, their education, their income status, their upbringing etc… not necessarily what you should know or need. Like when those people tell you that “You’ll like this book” or this movie or this piece of cake or brand of coffee… it’s all subjective.

From FOMO to JOMO – the Joy Of Missing Out.

It refers to the pleasure to be had from enjoying your current activity rather than worrying that other people might be having more fun.

If I don’t know about it then am I missing out? What will happen if I miss out? what am I afraid of? Someone else’s opinion, judgement, tweet, email, comment?

ROMO – the Relief of Missing Out – or some still say the Risk of Missing Out.

FONKU – the Fear of Not Keeping Up…

Again I ask – who says that those things, events, information to watch/read/listen/subscribe/buy/eat will enrich your life? Only YOU can determine that for yourself. iii – is it important? – it isn’t important. Let it go, forget it, put it down… it wasn’t important… what wasn’t?

Now people in the online community offer another way of life… slow down, get rid of things, have less. They say this will enrich your life. But to really enrich your life – they ask you to pay them for more premium content ! – haha 🤣

To all of them I say – DILLIGAF

Look up Kevin Bloody Wilson DILLIGAF on YouTube…

its not “Do I Look Like I Give a FOMO” 🤣🤣🤣

FIRE – retire

Have you heard about the FIRE movement, for want of a better word. It stands for Financially Independent Retire Early…

Don’t wait until you have that million dollars, stop working for others and getting stressed, start living your best life life…

These people, Neil and Sarah are doing it…

The resources for helping me with this decision to retire were:

“Your money or your life: 9 Steps to Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence” Book by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin.

A fully revised edition of one of the most influential books ever written on personal finance with more than a million copies sold.


“The Barefoot Investor” by Scott Pape (2022 edition)

THE ALL-TIME #1 AUSTRALIAN BESTSELLER – This is the only money guide you’ll ever need.

5 things to make your mornings better

A Monk’s Perspective – with Venerable Nick Keomahavong from https://nickkeomahavong.com/

5 Things To Make Your Mornings Better | A Monk’s Perspective

Nowadays, the topic of morning routines are beginning to gain traction due to social media. Morning routines are important; however, many morning routines come from the “productivity” point of view. In this video, Phra Nick wanted to share the morning routine of Buddhist monks and training within the monastery. In this video, Phra Nick gives you 5 morning routines tips that you can add to your daily life along with the overall intention and purpose of our morning routines.

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If

a poem by Rudyard Kipling

Rudyard Kipling’s (1865-1936) inspirational poem ‘If’ first appeared in his collection ‘Rewards and Fairies’ in 1909. The poem ‘If’ is inspirational, motivational, and a set of rules for ‘grown-up’ living. Kipling’s ‘If’ contains mottos and maxims for life, and the poem is also a blueprint for personal integrity, behaviour and self-development.

‘If’ is perhaps even more relevant today than when Kipling wrote it, as an ethos and a personal philosophy. Lines from Kipling’s ‘If’ appear over the player’s entrance to Wimbledon’s Centre Court – a poignant reflection of the poem’s timeless and inspiring quality.

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Simplifying Is Not Just About Less

It’s about abundance, too

Words by Carl Phillips.

I believe deeply in the power of simplicity. It’s become a passionate subject for me. One I have written many articles and books about. Broader than this, it’s become a framework for how I try to live. Something I am always seeking to bring into my life.

One part of this simplicity journey is about discarding. Finding ways to remove things from our lives. Whether they be possessions, commitments, toxic relationships, or something else we realise is dragging us down. Reduction is an important step.

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Low Energy Diet

courtesy of Dr Ted Naiman https://www.lowenergydiet.com/

A *LOW ENERGY DIET* consists of whole foods but avoidance of foods high in REFINED DIETARY ENERGY such as REFINED CARBS (sugar, flour), REFINED FATS (oil, butter), and ALCOHOL (also pure refined energy).

A Low Energy Diet provides higher satiety per calorie and allows you to store less energy for the same level of satiety, meaning you can eat intuitively to fullness and still lose excess body fat.

Protein Sparing Modified Fast (Diet?)

June 17, 2017 by Marty Kendall

The Protein Sparing Modified Fast (PSMF) diet is regarded by many as the most effective way to lose body fat while preserving muscle and avoiding rebound binging due to cravings.  

This article details everything you need to know to tailor a nutrient-dense PSMF to lose fat quickly while preventing loss of muscle and rebound binging due to cravings driven by nutrient deficiencies.

To learn more about the PSMF diet and how it really works, read on.

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Can Too Much Protein Accelerate Ageing?

Professors Stephen Simpson and David Raubenheimer have identified what appears to be the universal explanation for obesity – the Protein Leverage Hypothesis. The Protein Leverage Hypothesis demonstrates how our appetite for protein will drive excess energy intake and consequently obesity when the proportion of protein in our diet is low.

However, counterintuitively, they also caution against swinging to extreme protein intakes and have concluded from their laboratory research in mice that high protein diets may not be optimal for longevity. Passionate debate aplenty surrounds this topic. However, particularly since the publication of Eat Like the Animals, the professors have been eager to join the public discussion.

Marty Kendall will chat with David and Stephen (along with Dr Ted Naiman) to explore this topic further. This article details some of Marty’s thoughts as he has been diving into the implications and application of this ground-breaking research, particularly around how and why protein might influence your lifespan.

Read the full article here on Marty Kendall’s awesome website https://optimisingnutrition.com/can-too-much-protein-accelerate-aging/

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